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01 April 2011

To say or not to say...

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The picture of the view out of a rollercoaster pretty much reflects this morning!
It's been a rollercoaster of feelings....disappointment, anger, hurt, misunderstanding...
- this list could go on and on.

I had a very loud argument on the phone with my girl-friend. We had agreed on
 something and somehow it didn't happen, and here we were, kind of blaming each other
for it. I don't know how it even got that far. We were probably both just not in a good mood to start with...and PMS-ing and we both have a lot on our
plates lately....

But, those are all just excuses...arguments happen. A good friendship needs
a good argument every now and then. It can't just always be pink clouds in the
sky...sometimes you just gotta let it all out to make you feel better!

Feels like a burden taken off your shoulders.

And one always has to be diplomatic (I am very good at that...)!
You have to be able to make the other feel like he is in the "winning" position,
 if you don't want to risk the friendship!

When you let someone else win an argument, often you both end up winners

~Richard Carlson ~

I hope you all had a better start of April! And, it wasn't even a prank!!

Hugs & thanks for listening,


13 comments:

  1. Oh dear... these things happen and I hope the friendship is OK and you both can get back on track again. Agreeing to disagree sometimes is the best step forward.

    Tomorrow is a new happy day

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  2. Oh no, I'm sorry to read that :( Arguements with friends and lived ones are the pits, but you sound very level-headed about it ... hope it all works out okay!

    Hugs!!

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  3. Oh dear! I can definitely say that I have been there. Especially last year! Hope your weekend is much better and that things get resolved!

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  4. I hope you have a better weekend!

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  5. I've read so many "stressed-out posts" today that I'm just gonna blame it on the weather. lol

    Get some rest for the weekend and recharge if you can.

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  6. sorry to hear.. but like you said, we're all human & no two people are going to agree on everything. I appreciate friends who are willing to stand up for what they think is right.. even if it's wrong. ;]

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  7. sorry to hear.. but like you said, we're all human & no two people are going to agree on everything. I appreciate friends who are willing to stand up for what they think is right.. even if it's wrong. ;]

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  8. This stuff definitely happens. It's no fun, but at least you can know that if she's a real friend you guys can move on and forgive. I'm hopin for the best!

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  9. I'm sorry to hear that. Hopefully things are good between you know<3

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  10. In a way im jelous, but thats a long story...

    Chin up girl,Spring is in the air.

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  11. I hope you're feeling better, friend! xo

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  12. I'm sorry to hear that you had that argument, but hope you were able to work it out. I had a similar experience with my bestie a few months back, and we are still not talking so I hope that's not the case for you. I've apologized and tried to make light of the situation, but to no avail. Hopefully someday things will change. I hope all is well for you now and you are having a FABULOUS weekend :)

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  13. Boo. I hate arguments. All of mine usually end up in loss of relationships for some reason.:P

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